First Place
Elizabeth A. Bearce
St. Charles High School
St. Charles, Missouri
“I think it’s only fair for you to know, if you really are considering
me for this job opportunity, I do have a disability, and it sometimes affects
the way I work,” the applicant said levelly, as she stood to shake hands
with the briskly-professional woman armed with a clipboard and an accusing
stare who sat across from her. The interviewer frowned slightly, attempting
a thorough but subtle appraisal of the woman’s seemingly normal features. The
applicant, accustomed to such scrutiny, met the woman’s eyes and raised
her hand, which was drawn into a crumpled, tightly contracted fist. “I
was in a car accident when I was nineteen that damaged my brain; my muscles
are spastic on my right side.” The accusing stare was downcast
awkwardly onto the awaiting clipboard, and the reply was slightly strained. “Well,
I suppose you would like to see some of the facilities you may be working in…” she
spoke uniformly at last, returning to the familiar script she’d used
for her past applicants, she stole one last glance at the applicant’s
legs. “I’ll walk slow.”
My mother
had dreamed of becoming a nurse since the age of six. She carried her
toy stethoscope everywhere, checking for cardiac arrhythmias in anything that
would stand still long enough to endure the procedure. She took every
step to assure her success; years of academic excellence crowned her the Valedictorian
of her graduating class, in addition to procuring her a home at Wichita State
University. It was at this most promising stage of her life that her
little Ford Pinto was sideswiped and overtaken by a passing eighteen-wheeler,
leaving her trapped in the driver’s seat. She barely escaped with
her life, and when the doctors looked at her crushed pelvis, they reported
that she would be lucky to ever emerge from her wheelchair. The brain
damage she sustained from the impact severely marred the left side of her brain,
leaving her right-side motor functions incapacitated.
As you may
have already surmised, the applicant in the earlier interview was my mother. Fifteen
years after being told she may never walk again, she was married with two healthy
children, who bounced impatiently in the cold metal chairs as she walked the
long passageway to collect her nursing degree from the University of Missouri-St.
Louis, once again receiving the highest honors in her class. She went
on to work with children who were both mentally and physically disabled; patients
whose severe Down Syndrome or Autism was coupled with inhibited movement, either
from additional birth afflictions or accidents later in life. She is
living proof that people with disabilities can not only exceed expectations
to thrive in our modern world, but that they have a definite, essential place
in our society.
Through
my mother’s ambition and passion, along with the support of her peers
and professors, she excelled to flourish. She went through her entire
childhood, knowing what it was like to run, swim, and even write normally;
now she cheers from the sidelines at my track meets and dance recitals, and
has become accustomed to writing with her left-hand. I grew up knowing
my mother had a harder time with some things; but you couldn’t have convinced
me that it slowed her down. She was my invincible, unsinkable hero; and
I was blessed to have been given such a roll model. But thousands of
even greater benefactors have seen the true blessings of Mother’s inclusion
in society; the countless numbers of people entrusted to her care.
What if
someone had told mother as she lay in her hospital bed ‘We’re sorry,
but you’re damaged, you’re broken…you’ll probably
never amount to anything now”? I’m sure her future patients,
who love her blindly and wholeheartedly, as only children with disabilities
truly can, would firmly disagree. Through her work, Mother has enriched
and enlightened her patient’s lives. Her success can inspire them
to excel past their own challenges.
People with
disabilities have fought for and earned every right to belong in today’s
society. Their inclusion reaches infinitely beyond their own benefit;
our community itself symbiotically thrives from their activity. Perhaps
the woman who interviewed my mother found her disability discomforting; but
ultimately, that couldn’t deter her from recognizing Mother’s aptitude
for the job at hand. The inclusion was my mother’s; but the opportunities
it granted would be most heavily appreciated, not by her, but by the countless
masses whose lives she will continue to improve. In this way, all who
have become accustomed to living with disabilities can be counted in the many
blessings of our great society, for their activity and inclusion truly leads
to opportunities not only for them, but for all of us.